Ask Before You Ask!

by Hasan El-Jaizy

Before you increase Ustadz's burden by questioning new things that come into your own mind, why don't you ask yourself, 'Am I able to dig answers of my questions on my own?'

Cause what goes on your mind [questions] can't be thrown to your Ustadz immediately. Give yourself a break and think. Try to dig by yourself.

What? You think you can't do it? It's fine. But then, when you ask the Ustadz, don't feel that you are in the throne so that you can force him to answer. Sometimes he is too busy to respond yours. Sometimes even he doesn't know the answer as human he is. Oh My, then you say to him, 'You can dig and search the answer, can't you?'

My bad. I wonder if you were him, what'd you do and feel?

That's why...sometimes high people ignore some questions from lower ones. Not because arrogantly they stand. But...you have to understand that a man is a man forever. Nobody can answer everything and nobody feels fine getting distracted by some 'immediate' questions.

Just because you feel lower and try to be humble doesn't mean that you can ask everything you want...everything comes to your mind.

Great that you ask...
Bad that you don't know how to ask...and what to ask...

Bagaimana Dahulu Anda Belajar BAHASA ASING?

oleh Hasan Al-Jaizy

Bahasa Inggris adalah bahasa yang diperlukan oleh manusia modern. Perkembangan zaman + teknologi dan modernisasi menuntut penduduk zaman untuk berkembang. Salah satu tanda berkembangnya seseorang adalah semakin kayanya akan pengetahuan. Dan di antara pengetahuan terbesar manfaatnya adalah pengetahuan akan bahasa, baik bahasa pribumi [daerah/nasional], terlebih bahasa asing.

Apakah seorang dai membutuhkan bahasa asing?

Jawabannya: YES. Bahasa Arab yang paling dibutuhkan. Bahkan sebagian ulama di zaman dahulu tidak menganggap seseorang layak banyak bicara agama jika belajar bahasa Arab saja enggan, meskipun ia adalah orang Arab. Lalu, bagaimana jika dia adalah seorang Maduran yang jauh dari berbahasa Arab? Weits, jangan tertawai Madurian dulu. Siapa tahu Anda, meskipun Batavian atau tinggal di 'Serambi Mekkah', juga tidak mau belajar Arabic!?

Women

oleh Hasan Al-Jaizy

Women, they like poetic and romantic words. Nothing's wrong if they love handsome boys. 

Man, when you try to be so poetic forcefully (cause you're actually not into it) and just for the sake of being center of attention, women will not be closer to you. But if you try to be poetic naturally as you are, they will respect you closer. 

If it's fine to me to blow some of them with poetic promising words...I think I'm able to do it. Especially through Facebook, when you are able easily hide words of secret between you and her. You can blow up her mind with your gun (words). Promise her that you will get married with her one day. Make her sure that you are the luckiest one when you know her. Show that you are a straight and strict religious person.

You can choose many akhwats you want to shoot. Man, really...that is relatively easy if you know how to do it.

But beware of consequences. Being hypocrite won't give you any advantage at all.

I'm afraid to do that, but I always think that I'm able to do that. I mean: I know how to draw dreams on her canvas of mind, and how to betray those dreams when I get bored of her.

Don't ruin your dreams by drawing dreams on her.

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